A
Biblical Confession for
Uniting Church and Family
Presented
to the
National Conference
for Uniting Church & Family
INTRODUCTION
In the name of the Lord Jesus
Christ, we believe that the family is a holy institution, ordained and
established by the Sovereign Triune God Who created the heavens and the earth.
God's infallible revelation, the Bible, reveals that the family is an integral
part of the unfolding of His eternal purpose for the redemption of sinners. This
great and gracious salvation--purposed by the Father, accomplished by the Son,
and applied by the Holy Spirit--is in great measure passed on to succeeding
generations as parents faithfully disciple the children God gives them.
Therefore, the biblical order and unity of the family are crucial to the
stability and health of the Church of Jesus Christ. In light of this, we
recognize that the family- and especially fathers- are the focus of a fierce and
unrelenting attack by the world, the flesh, and the Devil. This has escalated to
the point that Christians must rise up in defense of the family in
uncompromising biblical warfare.
Rather than helping in this
battle, unfaithful church leadership bears the primary responsibility for the
vulnerability of the family in the face of its enemies. Unfaithfulness to God's
Word in our pulpits has produced the decline of biblical Christianity and the
dissolution of the family in our pews. The abdication of God's authority leads
to unbiblical practices in the churches and to the erosion of biblical manhood
and leadership. This in turn leads to the perversion of the role of women, the
destruction of our children, and the collapse of our society. Traditions, which
have originated in the minds of devils and fallen men, counterfeit God's
authority. False doctrines derived from Darwinism, Marxism, Feminism, Secular
Humanism, Psychology, and countless other unbiblical sources, have emerged from
a society that has discarded Divine Revelation and have contaminated or replaced
God's standards in many professing churches of the Lord Jesus Christ. The bitter
fruit of this is the fragmentation, not the unity of the family.
We believe that the only
resolution to this problem is repentance. We must confess our failures, reject
the traditions of men, and wholeheartedly return to God's revelation for the
establishment and nurture of the family in loving obedience to the Lord Jesus
Christ, the Head of the Church. Our fervent prayer is that our God will raise up
Spirit-filled and healthy family-integrated assemblies from the ashes of our
fragmented, individualistic meetings.
ARTICLE I
-- Scripture is Sufficient
We affirm that our
all-wise God has revealed Himself and His will in a completed revelation--the
sixty-six books of the Old and New Testaments--which is fully adequate in both
content and clarity for "everything pertaining to life (salvation)
and godliness (sanctification)" including the ordering of the church and
the family (2 Pet. 1:3-4; 1 Tim. 3:15).
We deny that God's people
should treat His Word as inadequate for church and family life by supplementing
His completed revelation with humanistic psychology, corporate business models,
and modern marketing techniques.
ARTICLE II
-- God Created Church and Family
We affirm that Almighty
God is the sovereign Creator and Preserver of His people and all the
institutions that bring blessing to mankind--including the church and the
family--and is thus deserving of our highest honor and humble obedience (Col.
1:16-17).
We deny that we, being
mere creatures, have a right to refashion the church and family according to our
vain imaginations by altering God's prescribed government, worship, gender-based
roles, or any other normative patterns revealed in Scripture.
ARTICLE III
-- Satan is a Deceiver
We affirm the warning of
Holy Scripture that Satan, the father of lies and deceiver of the brethren, has
used his subtle trickery from the beginning to question God's Word:
"Yea, Hath God said…?" (Gen. 3:1).
We deny that the children
of God should embrace and employ the philosophies, goals, and methods of this
fallen world in our churches and families, and thus succumb to the Adversary's
deception.
ARTICLE IV
-- Church's Head is Christ
We affirm our Lord Jesus
Christ as the Head of His church, having purchased it with His own blood and
having instructed it through His Word in order to make known the manifold wisdom
of God and bring glory to Himself (Col. 1:18).
We deny/reject the
self-importance and pride of man to usurp Christ's headship of His church by
creating personal kingdoms through churches with man-made rules that disregard
the Law of Christ.
ARTICLE V
-- Church's Leadership and Ministry
We affirm God's revealed
pattern in Scripture that the church be led and fed by a plurality of biblically
qualified elders whom the Holy Spirit raises up from within the local church,
who equip all the saints to do the work of ministry, and who may or may not be
remunerated (Acts 14:23; 20:28; Eph. 4:11-12; 1 Tim. 5:17-18).
We deny/reject the two
unbiblical extremes of our day: authoritarian, one-man leadership/one-man
ministry that impedes the biblical functioning of the body, and leaderless house
churches that disregard the biblical necessity of elders.
ARTICLE VI
-- Church is a Family of Families
We affirm that our
Heavenly Father designed His church to be a spiritual "family of
families" where members know one another intimately, the shepherds
understand the sheep effectively, and the various body parts function
interactively (1 Tim. 3:15).
We deny/reject the
current trend to value numbers and size more than intimacy and vitality by
building impersonal mega-churches rather than the multiplication of family-like
congregations.
ARTICLE VII
-- Family is a Building Block
We affirm that the
biblical family is a scripturally ordered household of parents, children, and
sometimes others (such as singles, widows, divorcees, or grandparents), forming
the God-ordained building blocks of the church (2 Tim.
We deny/reject the
church's implementation of modern individualism by fragmenting the family
through age-graded, peer-oriented, and special-interest classes, thus preventing
rather than promoting family unity.
ARTICLE VIII
-- Church and Family Mission is Generational
We affirm that God
intends both church and family to carry out evangelism and discipleship through
multiple generations, "so that you and your son and your grandson might
fear the Lord your God to keep all His statutes and His commandments"
(Deut. 6:2; Lk.1:50).
We deny/reject the
contemporary seeker-sensitive and youth group philosophies which fail to
"equip the saints" for spiritual ministry and maturity, resulting in
adults and youth who become lukewarm and spiritually wayward.
ARTICLE IX
-- Church and Family Method is Relationships
We affirm that the saints
of God are to be equipped for spiritual ministry and maturity primarily through
family-based, one-on-one, heart-level relationships, and especially by preparing
fathers to be servant-leaders in family and church (1Tim. 3:4-5).
We deny/reject the
popular church system that has replaced heart-level relationships with
activity-based programs, and has supplanted father involvement with clergy
dominance.
ARTICLE X
-- Church and Family Environment is Everyday Life
We affirm that the
church's relationships are nurtured primarily through daily discipleship in
everyday life, especially fathers and mothers training their families and living
out the gospel in ministry to the saints and witness to the lost (Eph.
5:21-6:4).
We deny/reject
family-fragmenting, facility-based programs which disregard the Church as a
people in community and which displace family-integrated outreach through
"loving our neighbor as our self."
ARTICLE XI
-- God Requires Examination
We affirm that God
enjoins us to "examine everything carefully, and hold fast to that
which is good"--moreover, to "let each one examine his own work"--particularly
when the people of God are not thriving according to the New Testament pattern
(1 Thes.
We deny that we who
shepherd the flock of Christ--whether as fathers or as pastors--have adequately
and vigilantly scrutinized the beliefs and practices of the modern church as
well as our own role in it.
ARTICLE XII
-- Judgment Begins With the Church
We affirm that God has
declared "judgment begins with the household of God" and thus, we
Christians are to humble ourselves under the mighty hand of God, looking to
judge ourselves lest we be chastened all the more (1 Pet.
We deny that the world,
the flesh, and the devil are primarily to blame for the disintegration and
destruction of the family, when in reality the modern church is much at fault.
WHEREFORE,
in light of this our faith, we do hereby resolve to...
1. Rely upon the Scriptures
alone for "everything pertaining to life and godliness," treating the
Bible as fully sufficient for the ordering of the church and the family;
2. Honor Almighty God as Creator
and Preserver of the church and the family, and humbly submit to His prescribed
order for each of these fundamental institutions;
3. Resist Satan's deception
designed to supplant God's goals and methods with the world's felt needs and
opinion polls, but instead depend on God's Word, just as our Lord did in the
wilderness;
4. Submit to the Headship of
Christ over His church, embracing His manifold wisdom, not our own, for its
structure and operation;
5. Reject the errors of both
authoritarian one-man ministry and leaderless house churches, and return to
plural leadership by godly elders who equip the saints for ministry;
6. Recognize the church to be a
spiritual "family of families" who value intimacy and interaction and
grow by the multiplication of family-like congregations;
7. Acknowledge families (which
include singles, widows, divorcees, grandparents, etc.) as God's building blocks
for the church, and maintain family-integrated rather than family-segregated
meetings;
8. Develop a multi-generational
vision for both the church and the family which stimulates personal sacrifice
and maturity and preserves our spiritual posterity;
9. Equip whole households for
ministry through heart-level relationships rather than activity-based programs,
preparing and utilizing fathers as servant-leaders in family and church;
10. Pursue outreach through
whole families "living out the gospel" in ministry to the saints and
witness to the lost, rather than age-segregated programs;
12. Seek God while there is yet
time so that, seeing our true repentance, He will withhold His hand of judgment
upon our worldly families and churches.